Dear husband,

Awwww! LA! It will get better, I promise (hopefully SOON!). I think most of us can say we've BTDT. It's rough. I bet you're an amazing mommy!!!
 
Ok, well... I do have to let you know that I have been making his lunch EVERY morning for the last month. And, when I get back from my run in the morning, I can hardly breathe and I want to sit for a bit cuz I'm pooped. I didn't see why he couldn't do it himself ONCE. I don't make his lunch the night before because he doesn't want his sandwich soggy... at all. lol

I guess that makes me a crappy wife.

hmmm well you COULD do what a great friend did for me once...at the beginning of my marriage...I used to iron his clothes on Sunday for the whole week...I HATE make that LOATHE ironing...but I was newly married, in love, and stupid...meaning I worked as many hours as he did PLUS go to school full time AND do homework...and he didn't like that I did it on Sunday...he complained to a male friend of ours as we were playing cards that his clothes were all wrinkled by Friday. ...our friend said "Steve let me see your hands"...Steve stuck them out and he took them and said "By golly they aren't broke! Iron them yourself you lazy man!"

...and in 25 years of marriage...I have probably ironed 3 or 4 things for him... in fact he has ironed more for me (only on special occasions when I dressed up)!!!!! woo hoo gotta love a friend that speaks the truth!

That sure saved me a lot of anxiety and eased my load a bit...and now he still gets up every morning and irons his own clothes!:thumbup:
 
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