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my3hens

my3hens

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Does my mother in law feel its necessary to message me on myspace with her passive aggressive b/s Like im not onto her seriously. Like I don't live with my husband and hear him on the phone with her and KNOW that he talks to her about every day. God I can't even get into half the crap in this and I will spare you all but my inlaws make me literally feel ill and I am to pregnant and hormonal to hold back my feelings so its getting REALLY hard to censor them. YUCK, okay vent over. Thanks LOL
 
Ugh, I hate that crap! Sorry you have to deal with that right now!! But, hey, if you happen to go off on her, just blame it on the preggo hormones!
 
My MIL was never involved in my life. UNTIL I was pregnant. she was such a pain in my touche. I finally let her have it. What did I have to lose? I am not encouraging this, because my momma's boy husband just got upset with me. But let me tell you, you have the right to distance yourself from the BS because you do not need that stress. You also have the ability to block her on Myspace. Let her fester on that for a while. And you will get a small chuckle out of knowing it. Oh, and you don't have to answer the phone either. She is not your mother. He can call her when he feels like it. But it is not your burden to bear. I say this, only if you feel like you have had enough.
 
Thank you girls, its been a long ten years in that aspect. Wes has been really supportive. I havent gone to a family party in months , I just finally got the point I realised they were toxic and it was pointless to really try to let them in. They are very competitive of the time spent with my family and Wes mentioned he was picking me up from moms the other day so I know thats why they are itching to come around. They totally play favs with my sil's kids so I dont know why she misses her grandkids all of a sudden. They dont even show up at their birthday parties. I totally agree I think its cause Im pregnant, this crap always ONLY happens when we are pregannt but then they totally ignore our kids once they are a couple months old or so. I am just so sick of it. I NEVER answer the phone for them. The only person that I truly loved in their family passed away this past year. They are just leachy and moochy and irritating. GAHHHH! thanks lol, Im just like feeling so gross now, totally anxious. I am tempted to delete her off my friends list. The only thing is shes very prone to play the victim and she "trys" to be an ass under this guise of niceness (though she types in all caps eveyr freakin message) I dunno shes just obnoxious. My fil isnt any better. Hes just as cuckoo. My sil and I are very hot and cold but mostly cause I do love her kids and hate that we dont see them enough.
 
I am sorry you have to deal with that Sarah! Miserable people just like to make everyone else miserable! I am glad that you aren't letting them take you down that road!
 
Oh gosh I could go on and on about my in-laws. I weighed 145 pounds and was 5 ft 5 and one easter I was walking into my mil's and fil's my BIL was sitting on the couch and he said "Hide the food here comes Jessica" His wife is about 100 pounds and almost as tall as me so I am "fat" I had just had a child like two or three years prior and had put on a total of about 120-140 pounds between my three kids. It just makes me ill. Needless to say I left the house crying he came out and told me I was acting like a baby and that he was just joking. My husband yelled at me and told me I am to sensitive and I needed to grow up. That was years ago andhe no longer talks to many people in his family because he finally saw how they treated me when he actually listened to them and looked at the things they did. They dont like me because I am smarter then most of them and opinionated and dont agre with some of the shady things they do and I tell them so. So I was kinda ostracized from the beginning. Oh well...I decided a long time ago I do not need toxic people in my life who are always negative and never have anything nice to say.
 
Oh honey I feel your pain.
My in-laws are evil, evil people and I do mean that. Every word I say gets logged away in the spreadsheets of their minds to be brought up years down the road and to be used against me. They have caused DH and I to seperate on 2 occasions.
Finally DH told them this last time (about 5 years ago) that he wasn't putting up with the BS anymore and if they wanted to have anything to do with him they better back off.
They've been a bit better but it's seriously just a ticking time bomb waiting to go off again. You would cry for me if you knew the things they've done to me, up to...and including...getting DH's old girlfriend's number and passing it on to him behind my back while he was deployed.
I hate them. I know it's not very Christian like, lady-like, whatever, to truly hate people, but if there was anyone in my life that I truly hated, it would be them.

{{HUGS}}
Keep yourself away from the toxicity!!!!!! Not. worth it.
 
Mandy said:
Oh honey I feel your pain.
My in-laws are evil, evil people and I do mean that. Every word I say gets logged away in the spreadsheets of their minds to be brought up years down the road and to be used against me. They have caused DH and I to seperate on 2 occasions.
Finally DH told them this last time (about 5 years ago) that he wasn't putting up with the BS anymore and if they wanted to have anything to do with him they better back off.
They've been a bit better but it's seriously just a ticking time bomb waiting to go off again. You would cry for me if you knew the things they've done to me, up to...and including...getting DH's old girlfriend's number and passing it on to him behind my back while he was deployed.
I hate them. I know it's not very Christian like, lady-like, whatever, to truly hate people, but if there was anyone in my life that I truly hated, it would be them.

{{HUGS}}
Keep yourself away from the toxicity!!!!!! Not. worth it.
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Oh god honey sure we don't share the same inlaws!! I am always waiting for the ball to drop too. I know that sinking feel and know exactly how you feel. Your just bracing right. Its awful! My mil hasn't done anything like that but my sil has made it known that she liked my husbands ex better..umm they dated 5 months. And I am Wes's first lvoe so they weren't serious at all. Grr well if you ever need to vent honey you ar emore then welcome to yahoo me!
 
my3hens said:
Oh god honey sure we don't share the same inlaws!! I am always waiting for the ball to drop too. I know that sinking feel and know exactly how you feel. Your just bracing right. Its awful! My mil hasn't done anything like that but my sil has made it known that she liked my husbands ex better..umm they dated 5 months. And I am Wes's first lvoe so they weren't serious at all. Grr well if you ever need to vent honey you ar emore then welcome to yahoo me!
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MWAH!!!!!!!:wub:
 
i hear you, i lived with them for a year and when we moved out we pretty much much don't see them that often bec don't want to be around their BS

((hugs))
 
Oh Sarah I'm sorry! I have a MIL from h-e double hockey sticks so I know what you are going through. HUGS! I too am always waiting for that bomb to drop!
 
Thank you so much chicas, I do feel a little bit better. I def need to have a talk with my husband when he gets home from work today. Its gotta stop lol. Im gonna go nutso.
 
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