Why am I so bashful?

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cheltzey

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You would think that with as obsessive as I am about checking this forum, I would have more than a measly 498 posts. Seriously. Why is this? I guess I just never comment. I read the threads, comment inside my head, and move on. I have no idea why. Maybe it's because it's already been said. Maybe I don't really have an opinion. I don't know. Does anyone else do this? I vow that the next 500 posts won't take me nearly as long as the first 500!
 
i know what you are saying. I do the same a lot where I just comment in my head :D. Also I have typed out MANY comments and then thought, dang, that is stupid, and I don't post my comment. (although sometimes my internal censor doesn't work and I go post stupid comments anyway)

If I didn't have such a naughty cat, I would have less posts :p .
 
HAHA me too!! Sometimes I think well what I have written/typed might be offensive because I can be kinda opinionated so I dont hit submit. I am kinda the opposite though online I am not very shy but if you met me in person you would see Im alot different. I am really quiet until I get to know someone.
meems said:
Also I have typed out MANY comments and then thought, dang, that is stupid, and I don't post my comment. (although sometimes my internal censor doesn't work and I go post stupid comments anyway)
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I am the same way. Reading all the time, sometimes a little too much when I should be getting other things done, but either I don't have time, someone has already said what I would have said or I just don't really have an answer/opinion that would be much help.
 
I totally hear ya. Sometimes I have to remind myself that if I don't say anything no one will know that I'm here. :D I write out posts and then delete them or sometimes when I do post I just think, gosh I'm going to sound like such a nerd. :p That's just how it goes sometimes I guess, haha.
 
meems said:
i know what you are saying. I do the same a lot where I just comment in my head :D. Also I have typed out MANY comments and then thought, dang, that is stupid, and I don't post my comment. (although sometimes my internal censor doesn't work and I go post stupid comments anyway)
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Ditto
 
I read mostly, just like in real life I listen mostly. If someone has already said what I would have said, I don't usually say anything. I don't post 'me too' or things like that very often. Sometimes I can't figure out how to word what I want to say in way that won't come off snarky or offensive. If you could hear my tone of voice you'd know I wasn't but I can't always find a way to get what I want to say across in typing.
 
Yeah, I'm the opposite. I'm a chatter. So I've been here since June 12th or something like that and I have a crazy amounts of posts. LOL
 
I get like that sometimes and then I'll go through a streak where I am chatty Cathy!! It ebbs and flows for me!!

You could always go into the gallery and praise till your fingers fall off to up that post count!!! :D :D
 
I feel the same way chick! I dont chat much coz i cant spell too well, plus i think i come accross boring LOL........in real life im the life and soul, i just have trouble expressing myself in text iykwim!
 
I'm the same way too!! I'm really only bashful around people I don't know, so I'm not sure why I'm that way here - weird!!
 
i wonder this about myself too. I'm here so much you'd think i'd have more posts. I think i'm getting cheated, lol.

and then i forget to pay attention to my posts and the milestones pass me by. i missed 500, and now i see i'm over 1,000 now, lol.
 
I got to 500 pretty quick I guess. lol I do a lot of the typing and then deleting though too. I think praising in the gallery and especially in the gallery love games has increased mine faster. :)
 
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