still no apology!

You deserve better.

(and he deserves a swift kick out the door)

I figure if I'm gonna cross the line, might as well plant myself firmly over there.
 
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Oh Amber I am sorry. I think you seriously need to sit down and have a talk with him and explain to him one what he did wrong and two how you are feeling and see if he has an apology for you and if not...

Belt him really hard!
 
oh that is stinky

I hope he didn't say, "You're not my mother."

Hope he comes to his senses soon!
 
i know how you feel...my hubby told me that mothers day is a made up holiday and then asked whats for breakfast!!:mad:

I dont think men REALIZE what we go thru as mothers..
 
dover6473 said:
i know how you feel...my hubby told me that mothers day is a made up holiday and then asked whats for breakfast!!:mad:

I dont think men REALIZE what we go thru as mothers..
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*shrug* guess Father's Day is too...I wouldn't celebrate it for him and see how he feels about it. ;)
 
((hug)) sorry Amber. i got a happy mother's day but that was because his mother told me that and he was like oh. then i got to go to a lunch where there was NO food that I would eat. i'm like ugh what ever. ((hug))
 
Ok .... thought I would update. I really do hate that I am "complaining" about this but I also need to get outside opinions. I told my mom what happened and she didn't see anything wrong. She told me that I was being over-sensitive, and that if I didn't stop complaining & dwelling on little issues that I will lose a good guy (cuz he IS a good guy overall)

So ... the update:
At about 11:30pm last night I was pissed that he hadn't called all day, so I caved and called him. When he answered I said "Are you done being a stubborn A$$ now?" and he replied with "I don't know, are you?" (ouch)
The rest of the conversation kind of went round and round. I DID tell him EXACTLY how I felt. I kind of used Jenny's points from her response on the last thread LOL. And you know what .... he agreed with me. On every point he agreed he made a bad choice, and he said that he was sorry.

So why don't I feel better?

Oh - and he also said that I never "discuss" anything - that I just yell. (Which is true because I came from a family of yellers - we all yell. It is in my blood)
 
Well there are two good things, you talked and he apologized. Now to work on the Mother's Day thing! ;)

I'd say that all in all it turned out good and while you may not feel better it could have had a much worse ending so there is a bright side.

And I know exactly what you mean about yellers! :)
 
Oh - I addressed the Mother's Day thing because he asked how my day was. I told him it was crappy becuase he didn't even attempt to contact me. He said it was because I told him not to call till he "fixed the problem" and so he didn't want to call and get yelled at for not fixing the problem. I told him I didn't expect him to not call - I expected him to FIX IT. So ... we'll see what he does tonight.

Oh - and he says he has the money for me that he borrowed (cuz I guess that is supposed to make me feel better)
 
It's good that you talked and got everything out in the open Amber.

Maybe both of you have things to work on in the relationship. You could work on bringing your feeling to him without yelling (although believe me, in this instance, you deserved to yell, lol) and he needs to work on taking those feelings into consideration more.
 
Ok I just realized that I never even read the OP about all this and decided to be a meanie in my response Amber. :( I'm sorry..I will go track down the OP now and post something like.."Kick his ass!!" afterwards K? :)
 
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