Slight Rant (School)

Jengerbread88

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I'm so freakin' irritated. Let me split it up:

Advertising Design- For our first project as a group, one of our members never showed up to a single meeting, missed every class period during that time period, and contributed nothing.

We still put her name on the project.

For our second project as a group, this same member did one small assignment, but that was it, and barely participated.

We still put her name on the project.

Flash forward and we're now in our advertising campaign that is OUR FINAL! We have limited amounts of time to work on it. We have scheduled our meetings around HER schedule. She claims she has trouble making it to meetings because she lives 45 minutes away. So do I. She also says she doesn't have gas money. She has a job (lives at home, has admitted to having no expenses but gas, and her job pays more than my disability does). I'm disabled. I have trouble affording gas. I still make a point to be there. Not only is she mad that she has to come to our group meeting that we worked AROUND HER SCHEDULE, she didn't bother showing up to class when we made our initial pitch to our professor. Seriously?!

Business Communications

I am the copy editor, which means not only do I write my own portion, but I also piece everyone's parts together to make sure it sounds cohesive. The day before our rough draft was due, my members still hadn't gotten it to me, despite several times I had reminded them via email, text, phone call, and in person communications. One person's contribution was emailed to me 10 minutes before class... meaning I only had that long to edit his portion into our project, and print, to give to the professor. I let it slide, and told them PLEASE get me the next portion sooner.
Our project is due next week. Neither of the other members have written their portions, nor have they contributed anything to the powerpoint. I suggested we meet between classes today, and they both refused. I then suggested we meet after class, and they said no. Seriously?!

Trends and Concepts In The Fashion Industry

Since the project was assigned 5 weeks ago, my partner has missed 3 classes. I missed one, but only because my professor specifically sent me home due to my high grade in the class, and the fact I wasn't feeling well, and she had let my first class out early and didn't want me waiting around 4 hours for the next class. Not only has she missed many classes, but she also has consistently refused to get me her assigned portions of the assignments. It's gotten to the point that I go ahead and do the things I assigned to her before they're due, so when she doesn't show up to class, I still have something to turn in. Our binder is due next week. Her only contribution? Confirming she liked the colour story, picking up ONE fabric swatch from a store, and offering up 2 celebrity inspirations and one link to the census website. Not a specific census information set, mind you.... a link to the entire website, for me to look up the information. She is supposed to do our final project presentation board. It's due in 2 weeks. She hasn't bought it yet. I've given her the supplies I have, and she's done nothing with them. I'm getting really close to doing my own, just in case, but I can't carry the entire project on my own. The one time I missed, I not only gave the professor a printed copy of my assignment in advance, but I also gave her a copy, as well, and emailed her the link.



Finally, today, I reached my breaking point, and I am talking to the professor about my Trends and Concepts project, but really, it's getting ridiculous. There's no reason you can't do your work, even if you won't be there. There's also no reason you have to wait until the very last second to turn something in when other peoples' grades rely on it. I understand some things, but.... THIS bad?! Ridiculous. Every. single. class. With the exception of the one class we don't have group projects in.
 
Oh girl I hear yah. I hate doing group work in school sometimes for that very reason. It seems in every class I'm in there is at least one person in the class that is a total slacker and is just going through the motions of school but not really doing it. I'm 30 and I really want to get through this and do a good job. I'll admit that I prioritize things and I have made choices from time to time whether or not I needed to study or do something else. I get good grades usually without having to try TOO hard but if I want an A I do have to put effort in. Some people don't even want to bother with the minimum effort of doing their assignments. My school has an attendance policy. They have high expectations for matriculation so if you are going to miss more than 2 days (unexcused) you have to get an exception signed by your instructor AND your department chair. That's pretty rare too. Excused absences are verified illness, surgery, etc with a dr note, court proceedings, jury duty, etc with documentation, death, the usual. So basically anything other than that isn't excused so you better get your butt to class.

Did you know that not showing up for class and accepting financial aid can be financial aid fraud? Don't feel bad about complaining. If she's getting financial aid in any way to attend school she needs to be accountable. Someone needs to be keeping her in check or maybe find out if now isn't the right time for her to go to school.
 
I know it's affecting her financial aid. We're only allowed 3 misses, unless the professor excused us from attending a class, or unless we bring a note saying we had surgery, etc, or court dates.

I just... I can't keep battling with everyone to get stuff done. I have worked my butt off for the grade, and she's going to get this A project with her name on it, when she has put in a D effort, MAXIMUM.
 
I wouldn't put her name on the project. And I'd speak to the tutor/s, letting them know how little the others have done. You've carried them long enough. Let them fall on their own merit.
 
I spoke to my professor after class, just asking her what she thought I should do since my partner hadn't participated. She said I should suggest that my partner bring the supplies to class next week so *I* can work on it, and if she doesn't show up, or if she doesn't bring them, it gives me one week to finish the last half of my project (I still have to finish the first half of the project before next week). She said "Well, I don't see what your problem is, because this happens all the time in careers- one person does all the work, and the other person usually slacks. Just do it. There's not much more advice I can give you. You need it done, and hopefully she knows enough to help present. If not, well, at least you carried the two of you."

Are you friggin' kidding me?!
 
yeah, um...I don't know what type of professional experience your teacher has, but I'm willing to be it's not much. Professors know all about business THEORY, and how it all SHOULD work, but its much different in practice.

If that was happening for real, you could talk to your boss - and if she were a GOOD boss, she'd recognize the need to address the situation. It's all about keeping good workers happy and motivated, not about carrying dead weight. People like that would get rooted out of the real workforce in no time.

having said that - it's all about playing the game. Without the support of your professors, you really have no alternative but to just suck it up and do it. This is just another obstacle for you to overcome - but don't let it get in your way of finishing your degree! that piece of paper means everything :)
 
Beckie, the frustrating thing is that this is my professor who had TONS of experience in the industry before coming to be a professor at our university. She held down 8 different types of positions over the span of 20 years in the industry... I would think she would KNOW more about how to handle issues like this!

But you're right. Now that I know she isn't going to be an ally on this one, it's time for me to just suck it up and do what I have to do... even if it means finishing the project myself.
 
I'm such a control freak, I'd probaby rather just do it myself anyway, then I know it's done the way *I* want it done LOL.

But I totally get your frustration. There is nothing worse than putting your all into something and someone else getting credit. Hang in there!
 
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