PERSONAL -- but........................

[4noisyboys]

I'm on the bcp for hormonal reasons...and it's the really low dose ones where I don't have a period for the most part. Believe me, it's better than bleeding heavily for 2 weeks every month, but the downside to it is that I'm not that interested in sex either. Like Jamie said though, the more you do it, the more you want it. There always seems to be something else going on for me though too...like I'm nearing menopause, so I'm at a different phase in my life. I'm not exercising like I used it, so I feel especially fat and gross. That is something i can work on though. Also, for me there is the dryness now too that I have to deal with. It's a pita getting older!!

 

[cheltzey]

Leave a sexy message on his phone at work. Especially right before he has a boring meeting. He'll think about it all day, and when he comes home, even if you aren't in the mood, he'll be! And it's amazing how much talking about it helps rev things up.

Have you thought about using the copper IUD? I've been told that's safe for BFing and it doesn't have the hormones to get you all out of whack. It's worth a though.

Go buy some new lingerie. With stockings. That always gets me in the mood! And if it doesn't...JUST DO IT. I'm always glad I did afterwards.