i'm glad you let some of this off your chest! we are here! ((HUGS!!!)) how hard for you...feeling helpless while DH is away and i cannot imagine the agony he is feeling too. wow! tough stuff! your family is in my prayers! ((MORE HUGS!!))
Oh Sara sweetie! I am soooo sorry! That sounds so rough!! I am sending lots of prayers for you and your family right now. I really hope that everything gets so much better for you! {{hugs}}
I know it's hard to deal with all this on your own (I'm a military spouse too) but maybe him not being home is a blessing in disguise? Hopefully, FIL will get better and DH will have avoided all the worry all together. It sucks that it's all on your shoulders though. TONS of P&PTs for you and your family.