scrapperjade
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that a very good friend of mine is getting divorced?? Seriously, she told me yesterday, and we both (believe it or not) were almost laughing about it. She is so happy about it, its freaky. And I'm just as happy too. I laughed and told her that it was almost as fun as hearing that she was pregnant or engaged, lol!
Anyways, before you think I'm COMPLETELY off my rocker, here's some background: She has 3 kids by him, and he had totally abandoned them 6 years ago. Every time she'd try to collect any money for the kids for support, he'd disappear. Quit his job, work under the table, so he could claim he wasn't making any money. Eventually the g'ment took his truck and gave her the money for it, and FINALLY he's paying support. Anyways, she knew that he cheated on her multiple times, but until she had proof or he admitted it, she refused to get a divorce. She was trying to save her marriage. FINALLY on Saturday, he admitted that not only did he cheat on her, he LIVED with a girl for 6 months!
So, she's got the papers, and she's going to serve them to him next time she sees him. Or maybe mail them. They live about 8 hours apart, and he tends to avoid her unless he needs money (which is ironic... she has so little money, and his payments barely pay the rent per month, and he tries to live off her... ugh). She is just SO relieved that this is almost over! She said she mentally divorced him so long ago, she feels no pain about it. Just happiness! Woot!
Anyways, before you think I'm COMPLETELY off my rocker, here's some background: She has 3 kids by him, and he had totally abandoned them 6 years ago. Every time she'd try to collect any money for the kids for support, he'd disappear. Quit his job, work under the table, so he could claim he wasn't making any money. Eventually the g'ment took his truck and gave her the money for it, and FINALLY he's paying support. Anyways, she knew that he cheated on her multiple times, but until she had proof or he admitted it, she refused to get a divorce. She was trying to save her marriage. FINALLY on Saturday, he admitted that not only did he cheat on her, he LIVED with a girl for 6 months!
So, she's got the papers, and she's going to serve them to him next time she sees him. Or maybe mail them. They live about 8 hours apart, and he tends to avoid her unless he needs money (which is ironic... she has so little money, and his payments barely pay the rent per month, and he tries to live off her... ugh). She is just SO relieved that this is almost over! She said she mentally divorced him so long ago, she feels no pain about it. Just happiness! Woot!
