I really hate..

[lauren grier]

Wednesdays


I just thought I'd let you all know lol.

No but really, they are awful. Kidlet is insane leading up to his dad picking him up........ and when he gets home.. O.M.G. that was pretty awful Thankfully he's only gone like 2 hours, and gets home right for bedtime (ok maybe not so thankfully on the timing there.. lol bedtime isn't exactly a joyous event).. but OYE. He's so mean LOL... at least he's in bed now, and I can go back to hiding

Maybe I'll scrap.. or .. draw something I need to blow some steam.

 

[Traci Reed]

Why is he mean when he comes home?

 

[lauren grier]

I dunno.. he just goes absolutely nutso before and after. He usually tells me he doesnt' want to go.. and then he's just totally tude filled when he gets back.

 

[joelsgirl]

Awww, poor guy. All this is probably hard on him. He's lucky to have a mum who thinks he's fun (most of the time) and really loves him and who is wise enough to hide when he needs "some alone time" (aka, has a bad attitude, lol).

And personally, I love Wednesdays. My helper comes and my house is always spotless...it's Tuesdays I hate, cuz we know she's coming the next day and don't wash dishes or fold laundry or sweep, etc.

 

[ashleyprugh]

{{hugs}}

i don't exactly like wednesdays either. means i have to work.

but {{{{{hugs}}}}} sorry the kidlet is being annoying!

 

[lauren grier]

And personally, I love Wednesdays. My helper comes and my house is always spotless...it's Tuesdays I hate, cuz we know she's coming the next day and don't wash dishes or fold laundry or sweep, etc.

lmao can I borrow her ?

I know it's hard on him.. even harder knowing there's nothing I can do to make it easier on him.

 

[ColleenSwerb]

I'm so sorry La. I have a friend who has custody over a 4 year old, and anytime he sees or even talks to his real mother (who is a drug addict prostitute :sigh he has a horrible change of attitude. It's so hard because they don't really know how to express what they are feeling, and acting out is the only way they can.

 

[Traci Reed]

Hugs La

 

[ZaCola3]

Lauren-My Connor used to be the same way and kinda still is. I used to walk on egg shells with him from about Thursday night until he left on Fridays and then again on Sunday Evenings until Tuesday.
Something about the changing of the guards or so to speak really sent him into a tail spin.
As he has gotten older he has been able to cope better, but it also helps that his dad is now 7 hours away.
His councelor said that it would always be me he treated poorly because he was secure in our love and you always hurt the ones you love the most because you know they will continue to love you no matter what.

 

[crecia27]

oh gosh, I don't miss those days - sounds like a good Calgone night!

 

[jene]

What Shannon said. We can always tell a difference in Gavin when he goes to his dads house too

 

[lauren grier]

thanks girlies... It makes me feel a teensy bit better to know I'm not alone in it (granted.. I don't really want anyone else going through that either LOL). It'll get better ONE day right?? Maybe when he's 18 lol

 

[uptowngirl]

i am sure that is rough... just be happy it is just once a week!!