I need to vent..really badly..

lauren grier

lauren grier

you're like stars
I'm just so freakin annoyed I'm about to pop my head off.

so let's see.. the past couple weeks things have just been falling apart. we were supposed to move into my grandma's old house. .and that fell through- that was a major major let down.. there were a ton of other little things, but I've been pushing through, what else is there to do right?
so today my battery light pops on in my car.. so I drove to my dads house- he checked the voltage.. alternator isn't charging the battery. .car is going to die.. blah blah blah.
ok.
fine.
great.. more money that has to go out right? so kids dad hasn't paid me the child support this month yet, not that that is really out of the ordinary.. he is never consistent and it jacks up things, but I should be thankful at least that I am getting it at some point right? there are plenty of people who don't get their money..
anyway so I Call him.. and was like could you just give me like part of it in cash so I can go get my car fixed..
and he lied
straight
to me
he said he had no money.. I know for a FACT that he does (I checked his balance before I called him).. he just said no. flat out no. and then told me he doesn't feel comfortable giving me cash.
wtf is wrong with you? it's not a LOAN you OWE me child support!! ok.. whatever. I'm just SO freakin annoyed right now.. everything is just going wrong lately and i am TIRED. We'll be fine, even if I have to wait a couple weeks before I get the car fixed. We survived for a long while without a car after he left. Ce and I would walk everywhere and we were fine.
It's just..
I dunno. I feel so overwhelmed.. and I want to smash things. :[
thanks for listening..
 
thanks girlies.. I know everything will work out.. things will get better .. blah blah blah blah blah all that stuff I keep getting told LOL.. but I've been waiting for a LONG time now for things to get better :p When is it going to happen already?! garh. garh to it all. I'm going to go draw a million things LOL it makes me feel better.. what else is there to do anyway? better to be productive then sit around and sulk I guess.
 
(((hugs))) girlie! I hope things get better for you real soon and that Tsp. gets bit in the a$$ by something big...not sure what tho'. :p
 
So sorry, La! If you haven't hit something yet, then you're a better woman than I. I would have punched the wall. (((hugs)))
 
(((hugs))) La! Wish I could help, I am there right now too and I hate the feeling. Hope everything gets better for you.
 
Oh La... so sorry to hear about all of that. :( No real help, just hugs (and I suggest something to take out aggression- like a punching bag and you can picture whoever you'd like while you wail away)...

More hugs...
 
I have a size 11 foot I could put up where the sun don't shine if you'd like! I have been down that road with Josh's dad and I can tell you it sucks :( And I am so sorry about the disappointment about the house. Some weeks just don't make it worth getting out of bed do they? I'm like the other girls, can't offer much help but I can give ya a giant cyber hug and a big ol smooch!! Love ya girl!
 
im so sorry...ive had a pretty rotten day today too so I can totally empathise and hope things get better for you soon!! wish you lived in florida cause my hubby is a mechanic and has all kinds of friends in dealerships and junkyards and could get an alternator really cheap for you!!
 
note to La.....next time you make a change to your child support agreement....have it taken DIRECTLY out of his paycheck!!!

I wish bad bad karma on tsp!!!! :glare:

(((HUGS))) La!!!! :wub:
 
I'll meet you for margaritas and we can discuss child support angst til the sun comes up.

I last got a payment (of a whopping $138) in December 2008.

:cursing::cursing:
 
I'm sorry to hear all of it!! I know its hard when they don't pay and I don't understand how they think its okay!! makes me mad at him for you :cursing:

:p hope all gets better love!
 
"He doesn't feel comfortable giving me cash" makes me want to rip his head off. OMG! :cursing::cursing::cursing:

I'm so sorry La. Big huge hugs!!!
 
*hugs* Sounds like you need a break... I'm so sorry that things aren't working out right now... but like you said, they will eventually. Keep your chin up! You're a great person and I like to believe that good things happen to good people even if we do go through rough times...
 
Dude seriously big hugs to ya. The world always conspires to give crap to the awesomest people like you and me. LOL
 
{{Big hugs La}} It seems when bad stuff happens it happens all at once. I hope you can find a way to get your car fixed.
 
I'm so sorry dearest La! If I lived closer to you I'd gladly take you anywhere you needed to go!!
 
That just bites all the way around! I hate when life piles on like that. Sending good thoughts your way.
 
so sorry La....wish you could come hang with us, Ben {DD 8} would love to have Ce around to play with :) since he doesn't like his sisters and brother so much :p
 
Sorry that really sucks. Sometimes it just seems like everything that bad could happen does and your world feels like is tumbling into the abyss. But the good news is it can only get better when its the worst. Hang in there!
 
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