I miss my hubby :(

nikkiARNGwife

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He's deployed and been gone for nearly 2 months now. I do okay during the day b/c I stay pretty busy, but at night after DS is asleep I start to really miss him. I guess I'm having a pity party for myself :(
 
You want mine? ;)

Seriously, I'm sorry you are missing him, I hope his time away passes quickly and he's home where he belongs very soon!
 
Awww sweetie!! Nothing wrong with having a little pity party!! I can't even imagine how you do it!! Big hugs for you!!
 
I hate it when mine goes to work, so I can't even imagine what you go through!! =(
Big hugs, and pity party away, you're pregnant, too so just chalk it up to hormones if anyone asks.
 
((((Nikki)))) I couldn't imagine..I think being a military wife is as hard a job as being in the military! Takes a special woman that's for sure. Hang in there!
 
Aw, I'm so sorry Nikki, that must be incredibly tough.....2 months is a LONG time. When will he be back....or do you know?
 
Thanks y'all...This is actually his second deployment in 3 years so you'd think I'd be used to it, and I guess in a way I am, but I think being pregnant this time (and chasing a 3 year old) makes it a little harder. There are good points though...last time he was in Afghanistan, and this time he's in Washington D.C. for 12 months. We're thinking he'll get to come home on pass at the end of August and then again when the baby is due. (I just hope this one isn't early...DS was 5 weeks early) Man I'm just really whiney tonight lol
 
I can't imagine how difficult this separation is for the both of you, especially with the pregnancy, lots of {{hugs}} Nikki. Just come hang out with us here whenever you get lonely!
 
((big hugs))
Your allowed to whine, and there are allot of people here to listen.
You cant be strong all the time.
 
I don't know how you military wives do it, especially with kids! It must be so hard! Hope the time apart goes quickly and he gets home soon!
 
Oh I am so sorry. I know how hard these deployments can be even if you have already been through it, they still are hard each time. Glad to know he is not overseas. Big ol' hugs to ya!!!
 
Aww sweetie!! I don't know from experience how that is. Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you.
 
Thanks again everyone...I'm feeling better this morning...I just keep telling myself it could always be worse...last time I had to go days without talking to him and now at least we can talk at least once a day on the phone. And he's an officer so he's got a little more freedom than the enlisted guys. I think the hardest part this time is that DS was only 4 mos when he left the first time so he never knew he was gone, but now at 3 he wants to know where his Daddy is quite often but he's too young really to understand why he's not home kwim? Anyway, thanks for listening to me whine :)
 
Oh honey your not whining, you are entitled to miss your hubby and Im glad you have here to vent. Thats what we are all here for! You seem like such a strong woman!!
 
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