DH got miffed at me a while back in terms of his laundry.
I love the man, but basically he's a slob. Dirty clothes laying around on the floor, etc. I don't pick them up for him...the way he is, I don't know if they are clean or dirty...and I'm not going to do the sniff test and find out the underwear or socks need to be washed LOL.
I WILL wash the clothes...that's not a huge deal. But when they come out of the dryer, his clothes are for him to deal with IMO. I might not work outside of the home, but with a 3yr old and the rest of the house & cooking to take care of, I've got my hands full.
This is a real conversation that we had:
DH: Dear, can I ask you a question? I really want to know something.
ME: Sure, go ahead.
DH: When you wash clothes, why don't you put mine away? You just leave them in the basket or on the bed.
ME: Same reason that YOU don't put them away...I don't want to.
DH had no response LOL.
And, have to love it...he generally puts his clothes away now (it might take days...or a week or two)...but if there's something else in with his clothes (towel, etc), he'll leave it and say he's done. Well, hello, you use that other stuff too.
On the happy side, he mopped the kitchen floor the other day while I worked on ADSR!