We're not big party people. DH and I both have potlucks for work that we'll go to, but none of the spouses attend. We're just as happy to have it that way; we both hate making small talk with strangers, and with a DS on the autism spectrum and no local family, babysitters are hard.
My daughter's birthday is right after Christmas, so family will visit for that. We'll do a little party, but just cake and presents with everyone visiting; her friend party happens after the holidays.