nikkiARNGwife
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I am SO SO mad at my baby brother!
Here's the deal. I'm 35 and he's 24...that's a BIG age difference but it's even bigger when he's the most immature 24 year old on the planet! I'm so mad at him I could just spit. So he's 24 and he graduated from college 2 years ago. You know what he's done since? NOTHING. Big fat nothing. First he stayed in the town where he went to college for about 6 mos with my parents paying all his bills/rent b/c he was supposed to be looking for a job. Never did and they moved him home. He literally sat on his computer playing games and stuff for 6 more months, living with my parents and mooching off them. Finally he decides he's going to graduate school...whatever..he's not motivated to do that he just wanted an excuse to go back to Oxford where all his college buddies are and be a professional student. So he talks my parents into renting him another apt up there and proceeds to NOT enroll in school and mooch off them for another 6 months...TOTALLY jobless I may add. He thinks filling out online applications is looking for a job. So then my sister who lives in another town finds him a job waiting tables at Chili's and he moves in with her and mooches off her about 3 mos then quits his job b/c he "hates it" and moves back in with my parents. Then a few months later convinces them again to move him back to Oxford in another apartment blah blah blah. He gets a job at a kiosk in the mall selling t-shirts but my parents are still paying all his bills and rent. They co-sign a 6 month lease with him and tell him finally that after 6 mos he's on his own or he's moving back home with them. All this time they are sending him money etc and then last month my mom gets a 300 dollar cell phone bill b/c he'd download something or other to his phone. So she FINALLY got to her breaking point and paid the bill but called him and told him to go right then and get his own phone b/c she was taking him off her plan. He tells her he doesn't have the money to buy his own phone so she sends him some of course and you know what he does???!!! He goes and buys and freaking iphone with my mama's money!!! And he's so stupid he posted it on facebook I guess forgetting that I could see it! I mean what planet did he fall from? How are we even related??
He's the baby and only boy and he's spoiled rotten. My parents are retired teachers and living on a budget but does he care?! nope. he thinks they owe it to him or something. and they won't just cut him off b/c they just don't think they can do that..but they don't want him back in the house with them b/c they're afraid he'll never leave. I'm just beyond frustrated with him.
I NEVER took money from my parents. I graduated from college, got a job and paid my own bills. I worked all through high school and college and made my own money. The Chili's job was the first job my brother ever had. I just with he'd grow up!
Sorry. Just needed to vent.
Here's the deal. I'm 35 and he's 24...that's a BIG age difference but it's even bigger when he's the most immature 24 year old on the planet! I'm so mad at him I could just spit. So he's 24 and he graduated from college 2 years ago. You know what he's done since? NOTHING. Big fat nothing. First he stayed in the town where he went to college for about 6 mos with my parents paying all his bills/rent b/c he was supposed to be looking for a job. Never did and they moved him home. He literally sat on his computer playing games and stuff for 6 more months, living with my parents and mooching off them. Finally he decides he's going to graduate school...whatever..he's not motivated to do that he just wanted an excuse to go back to Oxford where all his college buddies are and be a professional student. So he talks my parents into renting him another apt up there and proceeds to NOT enroll in school and mooch off them for another 6 months...TOTALLY jobless I may add. He thinks filling out online applications is looking for a job. So then my sister who lives in another town finds him a job waiting tables at Chili's and he moves in with her and mooches off her about 3 mos then quits his job b/c he "hates it" and moves back in with my parents. Then a few months later convinces them again to move him back to Oxford in another apartment blah blah blah. He gets a job at a kiosk in the mall selling t-shirts but my parents are still paying all his bills and rent. They co-sign a 6 month lease with him and tell him finally that after 6 mos he's on his own or he's moving back home with them. All this time they are sending him money etc and then last month my mom gets a 300 dollar cell phone bill b/c he'd download something or other to his phone. So she FINALLY got to her breaking point and paid the bill but called him and told him to go right then and get his own phone b/c she was taking him off her plan. He tells her he doesn't have the money to buy his own phone so she sends him some of course and you know what he does???!!! He goes and buys and freaking iphone with my mama's money!!! And he's so stupid he posted it on facebook I guess forgetting that I could see it! I mean what planet did he fall from? How are we even related??
He's the baby and only boy and he's spoiled rotten. My parents are retired teachers and living on a budget but does he care?! nope. he thinks they owe it to him or something. and they won't just cut him off b/c they just don't think they can do that..but they don't want him back in the house with them b/c they're afraid he'll never leave. I'm just beyond frustrated with him.
I NEVER took money from my parents. I graduated from college, got a job and paid my own bills. I worked all through high school and college and made my own money. The Chili's job was the first job my brother ever had. I just with he'd grow up!
Sorry. Just needed to vent.
