Bummed **kinda long**

ScrappinFlo

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Hi, ladies.

Please bear with me for a second. I’m just bummed right now and need to let it out.

My little girl turns 4 tomorrow. We already celebrated over the weekend with a mini vacation to Knotts Berry Farm. We all had a blast! I wanted to do something small for her actual birthday at her preschool, maybe bring in cupcakes and have the kids sing happy birthday to her.

There’s just a little situation at her preschool right now. DD’s been there since June and gets along great with the teachers and kids. Well, for the new school year, she has a new teacher. She is as green as they get. My first impression of her was not good. She does not look you in the eye and tries to avoid you if she can. I don’t see the connection she has with the kids yet. I’ve shared my concerns with the director and the procedure is that the school monitors the teacher/children relationship for two weeks before they evaluate and see what is/isn’t working. I am also giving her the benefit of the doubt as I maybe jumping the gun too soon, just as long as she’s not intrusive to my kid.

Well the past couple of days, DD’s had a hard time responding to her. Last Friday she got written up for bad behavior. DD was told more than three times to help pick up toys and DD chose to ignore her teacher. The write-up was eventually tossed out when I talked to the director, as write-ups only apply to children who were intrusive to other children.

Today, DD had another situation. She was involved in a fight that was started by another kid who was much bigger than her. She fought back and started a chain reaction with the other kids and all hell broke loose. The teacher dealt with them accordingly. I’m really not sure what the other teachers did when this was all happening as I’m hearing this second hand from DH.

Anyway, my point to this whole thing, is while I want to do something for DD at school, DH thinks it’s probably best not to rile up the kids anymore than they have to especially with a brand new teacher who doesn’t have a good handle on her kids yet. I’m just bummed for her and for me. She will have a cake tomorrow night at Grandpa’s house, though.

Thanks for listening.
 
Hmm, well ... maybe you can do something smaller? You could make little cards and do two hole punches and stick a sucker through them. That way they can just be sent home with the kids at the end of the day?

I'm very sorry to hear that things aren't going well at pre-school. I hope that the new teacher is getting the support she needs, and that the school will be helpful in looking into your concerns.

HUGS ... you have every right to be bummed. (((HUGS)))

~Melinda
 
Aw, that sucks! I'm so sorry to hear that happened!! Hopefully these are just growing pains and soon they will grow on each other!

Happy birthday to your DD though!
 
yeppers..that is a hard thing to deal with...new teachers are just basically thrown out with the sharks and have to fend from themselves..and it isn't fair to either the kids or the teacher during that time of adjustment ..oh yeah..and it isnt' fair to the parents either...believe me..sometimes you just have to stick it out and muddle through it all together...believe me..when i first started teaching..oh my goodness...i am SOOO glad that the parents stuck with me....it was rocky :) but it turned out to be awesome...i hope that will be the case with you...

i also agree with the snackie idea...lollipops with the little card..perfect! love that idea! or maybe those little mini popcorns and a cute little card attached made with that cute movie star kit.....that would be too cute!

ok sista..GOOD lUCK..thanks for giving the teacher the benefit of the doubt...be strong :) thanks for listening to me :)
 
I'm so sorry they are both (teacher and DD) are having such a hard time adjusting. I'd give her a chance too, since she is new. I love the lollipop idea. ((hugs))
 
Ladies, thanks for all your thoughts. I truly appreciate them. :) The lollipop idea sounds cool. I like that!

I really hope that everyone concerned gets through this. We're happy at this school for the most part. I just hope the teacher gets the support that she needs.
 
wow...tough situation! hopefully it'll all settle down for the teacher and the kids (who can smell hesitation a mile away!!!). I'd still celebrate her birthday but stick to something simple. Good luck!!!
 
Oh sweetheart, I know just how bittersweet birthdays are!! I definitley love the lollypop idea! I really hope that things get better with the teacher, for all parties involved. I can only imagine how hard it must be, im someone that does not do well with change so I would be having a hard enough time with that!! Big hugs!!! Happy Birthday to your little girl!
 
I'm glad you like the sucker idea ... I "stole" the idea from a fellow CT'er ... remembered her Valentine's idea:

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Just to give you a visual to go along with the idea. :)
 
Oh Melinda, that is just the cutest! Thanks for the inspiration! Thanks for letting me vent. We'll see how tomorrow goes.
 
So sorry for this tough situation! My kids haven't started school yet, so I don't even know what I would do except I do LOVE the lollip idea, too! Hope everything goes well and sometimes simple is better.. HUGS!
 
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