We usually keep it pretty low key. It is my favorite holiday but I like things quiet. We grill out during the day and let the kids shoot off their groundworks. They each get to spend $5 to $10 on day time fireworks like smoke bombs and fire crackers. Well, we don't actually LET them do it themselves. We light everything for them but let them choose what goes next, etc. Sparklers are the only things we let the kids handle and I still get nervous because it seems like every year I hear of someone getting burned. Anyway, we sit and eat outside. I usually make up some sort of red/white/blue treats to go with dinner and we all dress in something patriotic. After dinner we go down to the park and listen to the community band playing patriotic music. Then we head over to the ball fields where they shoot off the fireworks. We haul our chairs and blankets up a big hill and sit there with everyone to watch the show. I get my kids glow necklaces and silly things like that since we don't let them do their own fireworks. We usually do a patriotic craft of some sort too. Oh, and I get the kids out in the yard and take lots of pictures, usually involving flags.