some guys.. are just insane. I had a bf, who upon crossing the year 30 threshold, started freaking out.. that he wanted to marry me and start a family etc............. but on the flip side, he was frightened by that pressure and commitment (NOTE: pressure i was not adding to the relationship), so we broke up. -.- then when I started seeing someone else he freaked out AGAIN because he realized I was what he always wanted and he screwed up again & told me if i ever gave him another chance he'd never let me go again. YEhhhhhhhh tough luck buddy. moved on. deserve much better than this roller coaster crap. You'll find someone 10000000x better and ready for what a relationship entails.