Gosh, when I get angry, I get angry!

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yari

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I really don't like some aspects of my personality sometimes. Like when I get angry, like furious angry that I'm about to burst and it just controls my body, and it's at little things too. Grrr, I'm angry at my anger issues. lol
 
I tend to be the same way in that when I get angry, I am furious. I have a pretty slow fuse but once I reach the end of it, that is IT. It's been over a year, but one incident that still comes to mind is when I blew up at my brother. I not only scared him, but I scared my mom and my other brother as well. My husband went to work and told his friends about it and said "thank God she doesn't get mad at me like that!" LOL
 
I'm right there with you. I hate that I can get so angry so fast and that I know it comes from my upbringing which makes me a whole other level of mad. LOL!!
 
Yep. I have anger issues too. Just ask my kids and my hubby. They're the ones who get to see it most often. :/

I was in a meeting once that was being opened with a prayer. I was SO MAD at the person running the meeting that when I tried to close my eyes for the prayer, my eyelids wouldn't stay down - like they were in a spasm. It was crazy, but I was really mad at that guy. Lol.

And, just for the record, it wasn't a church meeting - it was for work. But, I worked for a company that was owned by a religious organization, so occasionally there were prayers before meetings.
 
ltarbox said:
Yep. I have anger issues too. Just ask my kids and my hubby. They're the ones who get to see it most often. :/

I was in a meeting once that was being opened with a prayer. I was SO MAD at the person running the meeting that when I tried to close my eyes for the prayer, my eyelids wouldn't stay down - like they were in a spasm. It was crazy, but I was really mad at that guy. Lol.

And, just for the record, it wasn't a church meeting - it was for work. But, I worked for a company that was owned by a religious organization, so occasionally there were prayers before meetings.
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Oh man...that's when it's the worst. Being angry when your supposed to be spiritual. Been there.

Breathing...Hugs.. :hugs:
 
The thing I don't like about when I'm angry is that I automatically call names when I'm upset. I know it's from my extended family and I always disliked it as a kid yet now I do it. (Not at my son, but at adults)
 
Some might say passion (feeling things in extremes) is better than those of us who tend to be ultra-mellow and often numb. I bet there is a lot of GOOD that balances out the bad.
 
I once had a friend tell me, after she'd seen a display of my anger, that she hoped it was never turned in her direction. According to her, I got far too cold and logical and, instead of yelling, got very, very quiet when I spoke.
 
krystalhartley said:
Some might say passion (feeling things in extremes) is better than those of us who tend to be ultra-mellow and often numb. I bet there is a lot of GOOD that balances out the bad.
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I like to call it passion, too. Some things really get under my skin and I go crazy lady. We're a fiery family, but we love pretty hard, too, so the good definitely outweighs the bad. I try not to be so hard on myself when my fuse blows. I just remember one of my favorite quotes, "Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
 
Yes I can get pretty angry too. I think I am doing a whole lot better then I used to though. The main stresser for me is people who drive badly when we are out. They do not have t do it to me directly but if I see it I want to say something to them.
 
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