Sabotaging???

[marnel]

Am I sabotaging my dd's love life? TWICE shes come to me about guys and they never made it to the door.
I am very serious about meeting my dds love/so interests. Ive talked to her about positive men and negative and relationships with the family mom/dad etc.
Shes been on dates movies, dinner, ice cream and thats it.
I am brutaly honest with her because I want her to be aware of a good person snd expectations for someone her age and where they are in life. Is that bad or do other parents do the same?
I do want her to be happy & date but not sure if im scaring her or making her push them away... One was a nice kid but lets face it he was a party animal and jyst got out of a 2yr relationship. The other nice kid but he has a record, no car, & hates his mom
Any advice for me its my first real experience with this bc RoRo left after high school with her dad. Charlie passed and now Miss Helena is 19 and in school still at home with us. Gahhhh its just so hard bc twice ive just had this part taken away....