I think you are being good too and my DD never really even had a boyfriend until right before she graduated high school (they are still together, off and on over the summer) but he doesn't have alot of goals or ambitions and honestly he could be a hermit the rest of his life and be perfectly happy....she HATES his mom (and he does for the most part) and so I am honest with her and tell her that if you guys stay together his mom is going to be part of your family, that is just how it goes. I do forever see them not lasting forever and think this will be a good exposure to some real life situations.....I feel ya ma
and right now I am having to give her some tough love and she is gonna end up having to move out and starting finding out what life really is all about cause she can't seem to figure it out living at home and refuses to listen to us
