I think if you are getting her to think about what she wants in a person and what qualities she should be looking for then it's fine. If she asks your opinion then you should most definitely give it. But, if she isn't asking then I'd let it go for a little while before I, personally, would give my opinion - she might see it for herself.
I think you are being a good mom. Getting our kids to talk to us is such a hard thing. I think it's fabulous that she wants your opinion, but ultimately she needs to know that it has to be her that makes the final decision.
You're doing good Ma!
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