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Old 10-10-2022, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted by joelsgirl View Post
That is such a hard situation to negotiate! You have been living separate lives for a long time; Joel and I have trouble living together again when he's just gone for a week! I can't imagine adding inlaws to the mix & being separated for so long. Give yourself (and your MIL!) so much grace for a while; you both deserve it. I know you looked forward to being reunited so much, and I'm sure it must be challenging and wonderful and disappointing at the same time.
You summed it up quite well, Kellie! I was questioning myself the whole time, before I told Lan honestly how I felt, but I am glad I told him and that he understood the feeling. I am blessed with a wonderfully loving MIL, one that does not meddle with our household, but, having only one child, she can be 'too much' in loving her adult son. I understand and try to let it be sometimes, but, there are times it's just too much...
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