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Originally Posted by joelsgirl
That is such a hard situation to negotiate! You have been living separate lives for a long time; Joel and I have trouble living together again when he's just gone for a week! I can't imagine adding inlaws to the mix & being separated for so long. Give yourself (and your MIL!) so much grace for a while; you both deserve it. I know you looked forward to being reunited so much, and I'm sure it must be challenging and wonderful and disappointing at the same time.
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You summed it up quite well, Kellie! I was questioning myself the whole time, before I told Lan honestly how I felt, but I am glad I told him and that he understood the feeling. I am blessed with a wonderfully loving MIL, one that does not meddle with our household, but, having only one child, she can be 'too much' in loving her adult son. I understand and try to let it be sometimes, but, there are times it's just too much...