Oh my, I'm nearly in tears. This is just what I've needed to learn and I'm going to start using/stalking the Power of Mom's site. Bringing in our extra boy last year just threw me for a loop and I haven't fullecovered. I've spent hours in tears over the last 6 months or so, feeling like such a failure as a parent. I have my 2 bio kids telling me what an awesome mom I am, and I have a foster child telling me I'm mean and yell at him all the time and never spend time with him and generally hate him.
It's miserable right now. Confusing. I feel like I'm never 'doing enough' , handling things the right way, etc.