Libby- did you enter my body and scrap for me!? Gosh, I feel ya.....care way too much and try way to hard sometimes! You know....the person (well, her words) who has helped me a lot recently with this is Ali Edwards. I have all of her books and read her blog religiously....I love her little phrases "embrace imperfection" and "it is OK". So simple, but sometimes they really do remind me to just take things in stride and let go. Best of luck to the struggling perfectionists!