Do you let your kids skip school for stupid reasons?

Valgal

Valgal

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I called the attendance line to report Jake's absence but didn't say why, as they require... because I'm letting him go to theater and watch The Avengers with his buddies, lol!
 
No, I use school time to tidy up, do shopping etc lol. They get lots of school holidays anyway so I don't add to that (I like the peace each day, I need it with my 2 ha) :D
 
Well my kids miss weeks every time we move. Any important things in my husband's unit and they miss. Movies that we wait years for they miss. My sister's wedding is coming up and my son will miss the last day of school! I'm a bad mom. :/
 
my mother always gave us one hooky day a year as long as we had no tests or something big due that day. i usually pull my boys out a day early to head up to the cape for a long weekend - but other than that typically i don't let them stay home for no reason!
 
With my kids, it seems like there's always someone out sick or for a doctor's appointment. So I don't add days by keeping them out for no reason. But if they're going to miss a lot of the day for something like a doctor's appointment, I sometimes let them stay out the whole day even though they could go in for a couple hours. Did that yesterday after the kids' dentist appointments, and now one is home sick today. Grrr. In the last 2 months, I think there's been 1 week when all 3 kids were healthy enough to go to school every day.
 
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We have a little more leeway than most, but if our kids were in public/private school, we'd miss days for things other than sickness, because I firmly believe big life events constitute life learning as much as school does. But probably not for a movie, though we do make literature movie-tie ins field trips occasionally for us.
 
We "skip" school whenever we want... one of the glorious advantages to homeschooling! ;)
 
Nope, they already have plenty of days off in the school calendar, so they don't miss except if they are sick. Matter of fact, my oldest has missed yeasterday and today because he has a bad case of the flu, with muscle and head aches anf high fevers.
 
Yep, but not when they get to high school. My boys rarely miss days for sickness and usually have straight A's, so I've done a few hooky days or early pickups over the years. But usually it's not for NO reason, just not a school-sanctioned one. ;)

And I have no qualms not leaving a reason for the absence. I'm the parent, not the school. And besides, usually they only want to know if your kid has something contagious.
 
My DH has really wonderful memories of skipping school with his Dad and brother to see the first Star Wars Movie when it came out in the 70's. I think for a 'special occasion' it makes it really special. To frequent, obviously, and it wouldn't be special!
 
My girls are younger, but yes we have missed school for things other than illness. My husband works most weekends, so we have taken them out for a day at the zoo, and other little family day trips.
 
I'll ONLY let my kids miss school for stupid stuff if it's cuz I'm too lazy to take them. Otherwise?! GET OUT OF MY HOUSE! lol
 
My oldest is only in first grade, but I try not to have him miss school unless it's really necessary. He does miss a few days a year for family trips and such, and then there are the inevitable sick days, but he does best with the structure of school.
 
Part of the issue this time is that my other boy is homeschooled and so are 2 of the other boys that are going. I almost said no, but the softy in me caved.
 
I can't think of a time I've let them miss school for a reason other than sickness or dr/dentist appt. I'm not opposed to it, but it would need to be sometime fairly significant (wedding, funeral, moving). I'd probably consider missing days for a big family vacation or something.
 
When my twins were in 3rd grade, they both had perfect attendance. By April, it put a lot of pressure on us. I got the stomach flu the 2nd to last week of school and we were all scared the boys would get it too and ruin their perfect attendance. I said, we aren't doing that again!

So the next year, I purposely took them out of school for a hooky day early in the year. Ha!

It does depend on the child though, and I'd never have them skip something important.

Oh, and I should add...my high schooler has asked me more than once if he could go to a midnight opening of a movie and stay home the next day, because all his friends were doing it. Uh, no. And also no to the staying home to play the hottest video game that just came out - his friends have done that also.
 
My kids have only missed due to illness/medical stuff, doctor appointments.. or when DH was deploying, I'd let them stay home to go see him off, and to welcome him home.
 
Yep-My kids have always been allowed to use personal days-as I see fit. I get two per school year so I figure they should get at least that.
 
Every year my kids miss two days because we are at Great Wolf Lodge and it's cheaper (often significantly) to stay Sun & Monday night than it is to stay Fri & Sat night. Yep we keep our kids out of school because we are too cheap to pay an extra $150 or so on a vacation. :)

Depending on the movie & their grades & what was going on the next day I might let them go to a midnight showing & miss the next day when they are teens. When they are older & if their grades are good & they don't have a test the next day I'm pretty much ok with them taking a mental health day every now & then.

Or maybe a day off to help Daddy at long last build that garage he's been promising me for 15 years now. :)
 
Nope...my hubby won't even let the boys miss for a vacation to Disney...I swore I wouldn't ever let them miss school b/c I was a teacher for years, but I REALLY want to go to Florida this fall....hubby says NOPE...that's what breaks are for!!! LOL

I tried to get Jason to stay home today b/c he is EXHAUSTED to the point he couldn't even walk this morning (he is playing baseball AND soccer) but he wanted to go!!! He is just like me...doesn't want to miss school!!! Poor Jason has missed a few days this year with high fevers so there is no way I would pull him out if I didn't have to...I know it's just kindergarten but he LOVES going!!!
 
Misty Cato said:
I can't think of a time I've let them miss school for a reason other than sickness or dr/dentist appt. I'm not opposed to it, but it would need to be sometime fairly significant (wedding, funeral, moving). I'd probably consider missing days for a big family vacation or something.
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I am the same way Misty. Michael, who is in 2nd grade, has only missed two days since he entered school (one for a funeral and one sick day). When I was in college, I never missed a full day! I literally only missed one class in four years. I guess you could say I really value education, lol ... or perhaps that I'm just completely anal :p
 
My parents let me, and I'll eventually let my kids. But, it will all depend on the situation and whats going on at school.
 
No...well at least not yet...especially since I pay for him to go to private school :) I would if we were going on vacation or something like that...
 
I haven't done this yet... but I have family coming to town next week (an hour away though)... and if they don't come out here, I will probably take K out of school to go with us to visit them. Otherwise she would miss out and I would feel rushed trying to get back to pick her up.

I don't think I would keep them home to let them go see a movie.... BUT... my mom always let us stay home when we just really didn't feel like going to school (at least for me, it was never because of tests or anything... and it didn't happen more than a couple times a year). More than just "I don't want to go to school." I LOVED that she did that. My friend does this with her daughter and calls it a "mental health day" which I think is great. My oldest is only in first grade right now and hasn't needed any... but if she did, I would probably let her (although right now she just wants to stay home to play with her sisters...)
 
My mom took us on a 5 day vacation in November, so my 5 year old missed 3 days. And I recently took him our a day to go to Legoland. The Legoland day I said he was sick on the attendance line. They give us a hard time in my son's school. In California if kids aren't in school and it's an unexcused absence, the school does not get paid for that kid, that day. At least, I think that is the reason the school gives us a hard time. But I definitely believe it's okay to play hooky a day or two a year.
 
I give my son two personal days a school year. I tell the school he is sick (shhhhh don' tell anyone) but I let him hang out with me if he really really really just misses me and wants to be home alone with me for a day.
 
I do. My son is in all Pre-AP, GT classes and maintains high A averages on top of playing competitive soccer 6 days a week and traveling for games. There are time he just needs a mental health day and I gladly let him take it if there is nothing major occurring in school that day. I will also take him out for family events when necessary.
 
Yes, I let my kids have mental health days. My middle schooler gets 1 per nine weeks and it can be because she didn't finish a project, she's really tired or she just needs a break. My elementry kid never wants to stay home so it's a rare event.

Earlier this week we took them to a MLB game and it went in to extra innings so we didn't get home until midnight. It was a fluke thing, won free tickets and then couldn't find a sitter so we bought them tickets to go with us as the last minute. I ended up letting them sleep in intending to take them to school late, however, I was totally in to my work day (I work from home some days) and they slept so late it wasn't worth sending them to school. So...they got a day off as a surprise (and did lots of reading and picking up).
 
I told my girls that near the end of the school year when all their big projects are done, we can play "hookie". They get a day off school and I'll call in sick to work :)
 
We have, for special occasions - it's the thing good memories are made of! My son asked for his bday to have a day with just his dad and I so we let him skip school and just had a fun day. He'll never forget it and I'm certain the school can just get over it!
 
if they have nothing important going on and if they are younger yes no biggie to me. BUT in high school here they have a strict 5 absence only rule or you fail. :(
 
Misty Cato said:
I can't think of a time I've let them miss school for a reason other than sickness or dr/dentist appt. I'm not opposed to it, but it would need to be sometime fairly significant (wedding, funeral, moving). I'd probably consider missing days for a big family vacation or something.
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Now that my kids are BACK in public school, they are off more days than when we homeschooled full time ... I find that amazing ... they get a day off school, a late start, or early dismissal every month .... 1-4 times a month!! One teenager is there full time as of January ... the other is there for 2 classes but next year will be close to full time (6 out of 7 hours) ... and they are in high school.
 
I probably would, if it was for something special. I was allowed to miss when I was in school, to travel to see a band, or something big like that. I actually missed quite a bit one year, just for concerts :D, but I did good in school, and didn't 'skip' just to do it, or for hanging out and I got good grades and wasn't a trouble maker. So, if it was for a special occasion, I would. We actually took the girls out a couple months back when dh had Dr. appts in Kentucky... We just took the girls out in the middle of the week for 2 days and called it a vacation lol.
 
I have for something special. I need "mental health days" from time to time and I figure they do too! Once a year, I'll pack them up for school and drive them....only then I'll drive on past the school and take them into the city for the day. They have no idea when I'm going to do it, and it's always totally awesome!
 
Well that's the last time I do HIM a favor! After spending the night and all day with his friends, I went to pick him up and he gave me lip about coming home. Said that since its Friday he should be allowed to spend the night again. Excuse me? Who just let you skip school to see a movie?

Argh! Kids!
 
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